About Elva
Elva 'Julia' Garafola helps people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, grief, or big life changes. She meets clients where they are and focuses on practical steps that make daily life easier. Julia uses straightforward talk and steady support so people can feel understood and start moving forward.
Julia has twelve years of experience as a licensed clinical social worker, LCSW, and practices in Missouri. She listens for what matters most to each person and tailors conversations to their goals.
Background and approach
Sessions focus on small, doable changes rather than jargon or long lectures. Her work covers a wide range of concerns, including depression, relationship strain, parenting challenges, sleep problems, caregiving stress, trauma and abuse, and compassion fatigue. She also helps with issues like adoption and foster care, attachment and abandonment, blended family dynamics, and chronic illness.
The aim is to reduce harmful patterns and build coping that fits day-to-day life. In sessions Julia blends practical skills with attention to emotional experience. She draws on cognitive behavioral tools to reshape unhelpful thoughts and on acceptance-based ideas to help people live by their values.
She also uses attachment-focused and client-centered ways of working to strengthen trust and self-understanding. Clients can expect a calm, respectful space to talk things through and try new strategies. Julia supports people who want clearer communication, steadier mood, and more confidence managing life’s demands.
Clinical approaches you can try online
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, encourages people to notice thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them and to take action that aligns with their values. It can help with anxiety, depression, and navigating life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking patterns and changing behaviors that keep problems going; it is useful for anxiety, low mood, and sleep difficulties. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current patterns and helps people develop safer ways of relating and communicating.Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Julia will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t worked before. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust the plan as progress is made, so the process stays collaborative and practical.
Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy easier to fit into life. Video lets people practice communication and read facial cues, phone can be a lower-bandwidth option, and messaging works well for brief check-ins and journaling between sessions. These formats give flexibility for sessions during a work break, on the go, or when shorter touchpoints are helpful.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Grief
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 12 years
- Licensed
- Texas, Missouri
- Languages
- English