About Tamara
Tamara "Tammy" Hardcastle Stickler helps people navigate relationship stress, family conflict, grief and loss, parenting challenges, and low self-esteem. She also supports clients facing career transitions and major life changes. Tammy is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, practicing in California with twenty years of professional experience.
Her approach centers on practical conversation and clear next steps. She treats each person as the expert on their life and looks for strengths to build on.
Background and approach
Sessions are direct and compassionate, aimed at making small, useful changes that add up over time. Tammy also works with people dealing with adoption and foster care issues, aging and geriatric concerns, cancer and chronic illness, and caregiver stress. She offers support for mood changes including postpartum depression, and for people coping with end-of-life decisions and hospice-related issues.
In sessions she addresses communication problems, control struggles, forgiveness, isolation, and questions of life purpose. Tammy helps people manage chronic pain or disability-related challenges and the emotional strain those bring. Conversations often include practical tools for coping and clearer planning for difficult choices.
Tammy provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs. Sessions are scheduled through a matching and booking process that lets clients choose times that fit their life.
Therapeutic approaches and online options
Tammy uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on real-world change. One common approach she uses helps people identify unhelpful patterns in thoughts and behavior and then test small, practical changes to see what improves mood and relationships. This work is useful for mood changes, low self-esteem, and everyday coping skills.Another approach emphasizes improving communication and problem-solving within relationships and family interactions. Sessions teach clearer ways to say what matters, set boundaries, and manage conflict so daily life feels more manageable. This approach often helps with parenting strains and relationship stress.
Finding the right approach is a team effort. Tammy collaborates with each person to pick methods that match their goals, needs, and preferences. She checks in regularly to adjust the plan so work stays practical and relevant.
Online therapy offers flexibility for different schedules and comfort levels. Video calls let people use visual cues for deeper conversation, phone sessions work well when video is difficult, live chat can be used for quick check-ins, and text-based messaging supports brief reflections between appointments. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, caregiving, or medical routines and to keep progress moving forward.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Grief
Also works with
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Forgiveness
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Mood disorders
- Parenting issues
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Experience
- 20 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English