About Toni
Toni Spera is a licensed clinical social worker who helps people manage addictions, relationship struggles, trauma, anxiety, depression, and related concerns. She works with clients facing grief, parenting stress, compassion fatigue, anger, self-esteem issues, and life transitions. Toni practices from New York and brings five years of professional experience to her work.
She sees each person as the expert on their own life. Her style is collaborative and straightforward. She listens first, then helps people set realistic goals and practical steps.
Background and approach
Toni emphasizes building on existing strengths rather than starting over from scratch. In sessions she uses everyday tools that people can use outside therapy. Those include techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy to help with unhelpful thinking, skills from dialectical behavior therapy for managing intense emotions, and motivational interviewing to support change.
Mindfulness practices are offered to help with stress and grounding. Toni also addresses concerns like sexual assault and abuse, process and sex addictions, codependency, and issues tied to aging or military service. She works with people coping with natural or human-caused disasters, domestic violence, divorce and separation, and first responder challenges.
Her approach balances practical skill-building with plainspoken support. Sessions focus on small, achievable changes and building coping skills. Toni aims to make therapy feel useful from the start, helping people move toward clearer choices and better daily functioning.
Approaches that translate to online care
Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and reflecting so people feel heard and understood; it helps when you want someone to help you clarify goals and priorities. Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, teaches practical skills to spot and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, which is useful for anxiety, depression, and many daily struggles. Dialectical behavior therapy, or DBT, offers concrete emotion-regulation and distress-tolerance skills for intense feelings and impulsive reactions.Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. Toni will discuss your needs and preferences and help decide which methods to use. The plan can change as goals shift, so the process stays collaborative and tailored to what helps you most.
Online therapy offers flexible ways to meet. Video calls let you work face to face for skills practice and conversation. Phone sessions can be a simpler option when video is difficult. Live chat and text messaging make brief check-ins, coaching-style support, or between-session follow-ups easier. These formats help fit therapy into busy lives and make it simpler to use techniques in real time.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also works with
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Bipolar disorder
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Family conflicts
- First responder issues
- Grief
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 5 years
- Licensed
- New York
- Languages
- English